Learn about playfulness. Then understand how you're already playful by nature and hook into that (that took 3 years, once I got that down I got the results I wanted). Be playful and let her know sometimes (aka every 3 hours a small compliment) you're romantically interested in her. Some people see it as "playful and confident". If you can do that, that's it. Yes, really!
Learn how to deal with rejection (you'll get rejected a lot).
Have a solid strategy. Mine is: volume * conversion = amount of women who are romantically interested in you. My conversion is around 1%. So I need to talk to at least 100 women (during the day time or on Tinder).
Tinder, I can't say a whole lot there (I can coach you on it, email in profile). I don't think the folks on Tinder like my approach, but the women I've dated do!
Meditate. I went to a 10 day Vipassana retreat a few times, got me more connected to my body and emotions. It is direly needed. This is the reason why my name is mettamage (metta means loving-kindness in pali [1]). I did my retreats at dhamma.org
Learn about playfulness. Then understand how you're already playful by nature and hook into that (that took 3 years, once I got that down I got the results I wanted). Be playful and let her know sometimes (aka every 3 hours a small compliment) you're romantically interested in her. Some people see it as "playful and confident". If you can do that, that's it. Yes, really!
Learn how to deal with rejection (you'll get rejected a lot).
Have a solid strategy. Mine is: volume * conversion = amount of women who are romantically interested in you. My conversion is around 1%. So I need to talk to at least 100 women (during the day time or on Tinder).
Tinder, I can't say a whole lot there (I can coach you on it, email in profile). I don't think the folks on Tinder like my approach, but the women I've dated do!
Meditate. I went to a 10 day Vipassana retreat a few times, got me more connected to my body and emotions. It is direly needed. This is the reason why my name is mettamage (metta means loving-kindness in pali [1]). I did my retreats at dhamma.org
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maitr%C4%AB