To each their own means that people can have differing opinions - not that they can each get their own way. This is indeed a 'society decision' - it's moving through the democratic process...
> Proceeds to complain about personal circumstances
You can't have both sides. Either it's a personal problem for everyone, in which case you are free to complain about your specific issues with it, or it's a societal problem and therefore your specific mental health issues are irrelevant.