Well, you're wrong. It's interesting that you think you know what goes through everyones head.
Just because they were vaccinated as children "without a choice" and refuse a mRNA vaccine does not mean they did not get the flu vaccine, or HPV vaccine, or others later in life when it was their choice.
They're quite loud about it, it's not difficult to know what they're thinking. "They don't know what they're making", "it's big pharma selling to you", and a thousand unfounded conspiracy ideas to try to justify it.
If they had good reasons they'd find it in actual research, not 24/7 news, podcasts, and Facebook posts.
The research into mRNA COVID vaccines is tremendous, the scrutiny applied larger than probably any other medical treatment. More so than other vaccines. Yet it's the COVID one that gets the hate. It confirms that this isn't about facts or research, it's about feelings. They feel it's bad, and someone they trust told them it's bad too.
Just because they were vaccinated as children "without a choice" and refuse a mRNA vaccine does not mean they did not get the flu vaccine, or HPV vaccine, or others later in life when it was their choice.
Stop being so condescending.