That's my wslconfig file located in my %USERPROFILE% dir:

    [wsl2]
    memory=40GB
    processors=8
    swap=8GB
    swapFile=C:\\wsl-swap.vhdx
    localhostForwarding=true
    guiApplications=false
    vmIdleTimeout=30000
    maxCrashDumpCount=3
    
    [experimental]
    autoMemoryReclaim=gradual

I have 64GB of RAM and 24GB of VRAM.