So, you need to say more. Or at least give me some reason to believe you rather than state something as an objective truth and "just trust me". In the long response to a sibling I state more precisely why I have never bought this common conjecture. Because that's what it is, conjecture.

So give me at least some reason to believe you. Because you have neither logos nor ethos. Your answer is in the form of ethos, but without the critical requisites.