So, let me get this straight, you blame Sidekiq (and others!) for pulling their sponsorship, thus throwing the baby (rubygems.org) with the bath water (the reputational damage they'd get from being associated with Ruby Central and DHH)?
Notably I didn't use the word 'blame' but correctly assigned accountability to the people who made the decisions they did, for whatever reason they had. The parenthetical examples are yours alone, not mine.
Beyond that, yes...the Ruby community is dramatic and this is not the first time a furore has been made over some inter-community conflict with a bunch of reactionary stuff kicking off.
