Realistically, either you ignore the privacy concerns and set up routing to multiple providers preferring the fastest, or you go all-in on privacy and route DNS over Tor over bridge.
Although, perhaps, having an external VPS with a dns proxy could be a good middle ground?
If you're the technical type you can run Unbound locally (even on Windows) and let it forward queries with DoT. No need for neither Tor nor running your own external resolver.
Although, perhaps, having an external VPS with a dns proxy could be a good middle ground?