That's debatable. Language shapes thoughts much more than you might think. Because you learn concepts from language that you could not imagine by yourself until you learned/read about them, so they are in effect very linked to language.
I can also think in images and internal visualizations. Geometric reasoning is also a thing. Musicians can also hear things in their mind - some can write it down, others can play it directly, and in my case I'm not good enough to get it out of my head!
In all cases though these thoughts are kind of tied to representations from the real world. Sort of like other languages via different senses. So yeah, how abstract can our thoughts actually be?
But the thing you learn is not the word 'purple'. You just use the word as the mental scaffolding to build a concept of purple. The word forms a linkage to a deeper embedding, which is further proven by the fact that it's actually slightly different in each mind that has understanding of the concept.
This embedded concept is what is doing the work, the word was just the seed of the understanding and a method by which to convey that understanding to others.
Language is definitely a significant part of thinking, but when I remember how cold it was outside yesterday to figure out if it was colder than today, I'm not bringing words to mind. I'm bringing up some other non-discrete information that I could never precisely encode into words and then factoring that in with the other non-discrete information I'm currently taking in through my senses. Its only after that processing that I encode it as a lossy "It was colder yesterday" statement.
For example, I can think in formal logic. I've learned to do that, and surely my brain takes a step-by-step approach to it, but I've also internalized some of it and I don't think that my proficiency with English has anything to do with it.
I could have learned the same concepts in any other language, but the end result would be the same.
And surely there are many thoughts that can't be expressed purely with words. For example all that is related to qualia. You can think of a color but you can't describe what you see in your mind's eye with words, not in a way that would let a blind person share the same experience. Or try describing "love" without making a similitude. Is love a thought? Or a feeling? Is there a meaningful difference between the two?
>The hypothesis is in dispute, with many different variations throughout its history.[2] The strong hypothesis of linguistic relativity, now referred to as linguistic determinism, is that language determines thought and that linguistic categories limit and restrict cognitive categories. This was a claim by some earlier linguists pre-World War II;[3] since then it has fallen out of acceptance by contemporary linguists.
eh, probably both. Why does it have to be a fight between two schools of thoughts? Thoughts can be across-modal. Some of it can be done in specific language or some could be visual.
(universal grammar peoole hates this somehow, it's weird)
That's debatable. Language shapes thoughts much more than you might think. Because you learn concepts from language that you could not imagine by yourself until you learned/read about them, so they are in effect very linked to language.