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		agumonkey on Nov 29, 2022 \| parent \| context \| favorite \| on: Intentionally making close friends It's not only social anxiety that forbids people. It's also failed relationships that bruise your desire to try again. In my case I failed people enough time not to want to bother someone else :)

bgroat on Nov 29, 2022 [–]

It's interesting to me that you think you failed people.

I roll my eyes when I hear quotes like, "Judge a fish by it's ability to fly and you'll think it's a failure"... but there is something to that.

Maybe you're chocolate and those people just prefer vanilla?

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