As a third-generation Italian migrant, I'd remind you that food evolves. The grandmas and aunts always made both bolognese and chicken lasagna, with a heavy tomato sauce and a lot of cheese, in a pretty similar way (never any cream though). I'd take that any day over a "proper" one with bechamel!
Nobody said it didn't evolve, and you're the first one to use the word "proper" which has a much different connotation than "traditional." Think of it as a snapshot in an event-sourced system. You can take a bunch of snapshots over time, but #53 is going to be the same every time. A "traditional" lasagna has a bechamel sauce. You can make it without, and it can be as good or better. It just won't be traditional, which is totally fine.
I'm not Italian, but my impression from traveling in Italy is that every town\village\grandma has their own version of nearly every Italian dish and they all consider theirs to be the traditional version. I think I got told three or four times that I was in the village where focaccia was invented - different villages, that is. And they were all quite different focaccias so I guess they were all right.
Side note: bechamel lasagne is usually called lasagne al forno and I think it comes from Bologna. In many other parts of Italy they don't use bechamel in their traditional lasagnes, and they often do use ricotta and mozzarella.
What’s a third generation Italian migrant? Your family has been migrating for three generations? Or you’re just an American with an Italian great-grandparent?
I'd assume it means their primary language is Italian, and they basically only interact with other Americans who's great grand parents were Italian and primarily speak Italian.
So like a snapshot of Italian culture as it was a few generations back like how Quebec is a snapshot of historic France and Newfoundland is a snapshot of england
My great-grandparents migrated from Italy to Brazil. Is there a better way to phrase that?
It's not a really strong identity, we don't cultivate the ancestry like Americans do, so unfortunately I don't speak the language, neither do most of the ~30M italian descendants in the south. The deeper into the countryside you go though, you start hearing old dialects of italian (and german).
