I think accusations of hypocrisy usually map to an insightful argument: "Hey, there's a reason people do that thing you object to, and it's usually a good reason, as demonstrated by the fact that, given all the options, you find yourself resorting to it. So, maybe instead of shaming people, you should be helping to isolate the reason and find a way to obviate it instead of just throwing stones."
To be fair, the New York Times' privacy policy actually is represented as one of those dots in the image (and it's not in a particularly good spot ... it's pretty close to the top):
I think accusations of hypocrisy usually map to an insightful argument: "Hey, there's a reason people do that thing you object to, and it's usually a good reason, as demonstrated by the fact that, given all the options, you find yourself resorting to it. So, maybe instead of shaming people, you should be helping to isolate the reason and find a way to obviate it instead of just throwing stones."