No, that isn't what I claimed at all. And you twisting my statements in that way belies your statements elsewhere that you aren't angry.

I am sorry for whatever it is you have suffered that you are so angry.

I have a very deadly medical condition. I am homeless. I was sexually abused as a child.

I am also getting healthier, paying off debts and I am the top ranked woman on Hacker News which is helping me further my personal goals. Because I spent a lot of years working to put my anger down and stop using every person I ran into as a scratching post to sharpen my claws.

Whatever other shitty thing you say to me next, I think I am done with this conversation. Because you are dragging me down to your level and failing to see that no one here wants to listen to your side precisely because you are being so consistently ugly.

And that is exactly my point. I am the top ranked woman here because I don't come in here and kick the shit out of every man here for simply being born male. I do, however, stand up for myself and give push back when I feel that is appropriate. There is a difference between those two things. They are NOT synonymous.

That is getting results and it breaks the cycle of "who gets to be the designated toilet in our Lord of the Flies society?"

You don't come here and kick the crap out of every man, but you happily do so to women and PoC:

This statement of yours is overtly sexist and racist.

"I am so sick of women and people of color being openly hateful to people who were born the "wrong" gender and color to be part of the unfortunate many."

Compare it to this version:

"I am so sick of people being openly hateful to people who were born the "wrong" gender and color"

I'm sorry you have suffered in your life, but that, and your Hacker News Karma score is not a license to make racist or sexist comments and not expect them to be rebutted.

You say that from your point of view there are 'sides' in this. It's clear which one you have chosen. It's actually not anyone else's duty to try to change that. If you don't like how you feel when people respond to what you say - that is your problem to solve.