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Is “friendship” meaning same for all world? (paradict.com)
12 points by acabami on March 9, 2017 | hide | past | favorite | 11 comments


In English and in France we use a bunch of different words that kind of quantify levels of friendship. This means that the word friendship is already subjective within a particular language.

Here a some of the words:

My friend, my palm, my buddy, my chum, my bff, my mate

Mon ami, mon pot, mon copain, mon camarade, mon familier

Here are some references to show how they relate to each other: http://www.wordreference.com/enfr/reverse/friend http://www.wordreference.com/fren/reverse/pote

Also there is a difference between a female friendship and male friendship usually. Men friends with other men barely talk about their problem, they're usually hanging out to escape their problems. I can't speak for women categorically but I feel they're more likely to discuss their issues with their female friends than men.

There are far more factors in play too, such as culture, friends in the Australia for example may call each other cunts but in the USA that would probably not be a friendly thing to do even with your pals.

My overarching point being that friendship means many things to many different people, regardless of even leaving a country, language or culture. So given the context of the world, it clearly has varying meanings.


In what kind of detail? We have multiple terms of friendship too albeit many slang and likely less beautiful than the French language:

   associate
   acquaintance
   colleague
   school / work / etc mate
   friend
   homegirl / homeboy
   comrade
   wingman
   best friend (plus similar slang like "bezzie" and "bff")
   confidant
   companion
   girlfriend / boyfriend
   partner / wife / husband
   soul mate
...plus many more I've not thought of.


> ...plus many more I've not thought of

Several more are in one scene of one Simpsons episode [1]. Homer is trying to determine who his soul mate is, and goes into Moe's thinking it might be Barney.

Barney said that he was more of a chum.

Homer turned to Lenny, who said he was a crony.

Carl said he was an acquaintance.

Other people at the bar said colleague, sympathizer, compadre, associate, and contemporary.

Finally, Homer turns to Moe, who unleashes the perfect term for many modern friendships: "I'm a well-wisher in that I don't wish you any specific harm".

[1] Season 8, Episode 9, "The Mysterious Voyage of Homer" (3F24).


Ahh, I already updated my answer to cover some of your point, however you have thought of far more words in English than I did :)


In theory yes, how it actually develops no. Friendship in Brazil is really close and intimate, in Ireland is a casual every now and then encounter.


That's a strange thing to say. In my experience having friends in Ireland is just like having friends in any other country.


I think he means physically close. In the UK and Ireland we don't like to hug and especially don't like to kiss cheeks with our mates.


I think he means the definition of friendships can be broader or more intimate depending on the language.


He never mentioned language, he mentioned nationality though.


I just assumed he discussed nationalities with regards to regional colloquialisms. Much like you're assumed he was discussing regional social attitudes.


I think it has different meanings not only for countries but also for people




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