Some moderate physical exercises do help but I also find that cooking helps me to be more relaxed after a day of coding work. Maybe because it needs a totally differnt kind of focus like chopping and much more (actual)hands-on which mean my coding brain can be shutdown afterwards.
Able to contribute to ML is already better than many of us, so congrats and don't downplay it.
As a general rule of thumb, I would say just be yourself, be good to others in general and there's no rush for it (some people would choose to like or not like you, and it's totally fine). It takes time (~10+ year) to be mature.
When I was your age, I have no clue too other than just finishing my first public exam. I happened to work for a community center to promote the usage of Internet as a summer job. That job transforms me to be more confident in front of people as I need to face people in different walk of lives. It's a good starting point as I can use my computer skill as a stepping stone.
I probably won't pick CS as my undergrad study if I haven't used dreamweaver to create website for my classmate when I was just 12 years old (hand-type html, css is a bit much for me that time. And Dw allows your to set hyperlink, an on hover event easily, js is hard to grasp for me that time ) .
So I always think it's good to have a low barrier for people to get in.
I kind of miss the day when everyone is chatting on the phone and ICQ, MSN and you need to be in a certain time for certain people. Nowadays, my brother who is a digital native just chat with his friends all day long with Discord, which is something that I just can never do.
Try to get into a role that needs to gather user requirements or doing some system design or coordinate your team member(scrum master) maybe? No job is 100% engaging all the time though and I think if your current work env. is stable, figuring out some new interests are a way too.
Thanks for the great advice. I have to think about it. It feels that the tasks associated with gathering user requirements are performed by the manager, and tasks related to system design are performed by team lead who doesn't like to share them.
But got the idea.
I use dapper with a plugin called dapper.simplecrud (https://github.com/ericdc1/Dapper.SimpleCRUD). This already helps to reduce the need to write simple SQL code repeatedly quite a lot. When doing SQL operations more complicated than a simple crud, I resort to raw SQL or stored procedure.
Some professions like teacher are tough to find a similar role in other country. Different qualication, teaching language and teaching method they have to accomendate. It's a tough call to them.
For IT profession though, it's more flexible. Personally, I have worked in a multi-nation develop team, and the experience is good.
I had an issue with my router which now uses myfiosgateway.com as the router config though it is hosted on the router (presumably so it can serve https?) And mark monitor showed up with a big "this is the actual internet so you don't wanna visit it" page when I was routed to the actual .com, kinda similar
